How the receptionist got their scowl
Written by: S. Connor
I believe wholeheartedly that of all the roles in the practice, the reception team have the worst deal. They get paid the least amount of money and they take the most crap from patients, doctors and other members of staff. They work relentlessly from the moment they arrive until they finally get to go home, and the mad thing about it is that they could all earn more money working in a supermarket or behind a bar, but for the most part they stay.
I think that we have all had a higher turnover of staff in general since the pandemic, and I know that we have seen a few people come and go with rapidity on reception, but the majority of the old guard have never considered leaving. I admire them enormously, and in all honesty, I do not think that I could do their job on a day-to-day basis.
They are the bedrock of general practice and the foundation upon which we build, and they get no downtime, no real break from their role. Even GPs get a break (if only for a minute) between patients, but for reception a shift is often non-stop picking up phones or dealing face to face with patients. They are highly trained individuals, who receive little to no respect for their experience, and it seems incredible to me that they put up with the treatment they receive.
If I ever speak to a person, whether it be a patient or someone I know and they are doing a bit of reception bashing, I ask them the same questions;
How would you respond if you were told that you were useless, every day, for years, by the people you serve?
How would you feel, if on a weekly basis at least one patient told you that you couldn’t do your job, or that somehow, their own failure to order their medication was your fault?
How would you feel if you were paid less than £10 an hour and were told by a patient that if they die, it’s your fault?
How would you feel if the public you serve completely disregard your training and the questions you ask because you are only a receptionist?
How would you feel if you worked your arse off for a public who happily label you and your colleagues as dragons?
I think that over time some GP receptionists (and I must stress that it is some, not all) grow a thick skin in order to protect themselves. Perhaps the dragon scales that patients sometimes see are more of a reflection of the way receptionists are treated than of them as people. If you are relentlessly bombarded with insults surely it is only natural that a defence mechanism builds up, and that being told you’re useless results in a lack of enthusiasm when dealing with your 50th phone call that day. It is very hard to remain breezy and full of smiles when all you see are unhappy faces, who cannot understand why you can’t immediately give in to their every demand.
This is not a piece about how to make things better for reception, because until the public change their attitude to these women, because on the whole women tend to make up most reception teams in GP land, then we will never make it a truly enjoyable job. Don’t get me wrong it isn’t doom and gloom all the time, but I must admit that particularly since the beginning of covid, our reception team seem to be given more and more of a hard time.
So much for clap for the NHS, now we’re a couple of years in people forget that without receptionists, there would have been no vaccine clinics. Without reception, the practice simply could not run.
This piece is written purely to acknowledge what receptionists do, and the fact that they do it for very little in the grand scheme of things.
If you can, and where you can, remind your reception team just how much you appreciate them. It could be making them a coffee when you know they haven’t had time to leave their desk or buying them some treats on a Friday to end the week with a bit of a sugar rush. Or even, simply thanking them for everything they do.
It’s easy to get wrapped up in your own stress in such a relentless job as this, but we aren’t the only ones working hard. Receptionists do not deserve the public reputation they have, and so now, right now, as soon as you’ve finished reading this, I want you to go and tell your team just how much you appreciate them for everything they do.
Here’s to you, the GP receptionists of the UK, I take my hat off to you all. Thank you.
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